Do you welcome changes? Do you like not knowing what is going to happen? Or do you prefer a quite and under control life?
In the last time I am living changes. Not in my particular life, but around me, in my environment. Changes in other’s life. Maybe it is a sign. Maybe it is my time to change, to make my own changes, those that affect directly my life.
Changes usually frighten. I think this is the reason that makes us to have monotonous lives. I do not think I have a boring life. Of course I do change things, but they are superficial and little alterations. I need more. I need that big change that can make me feel excited, nervous, that makes me look forward to seeing the results. I need to give that step that differentiates your old life from a new one, the life you want to have, in which you are who make decisions. The life in which you decide when to change again.
So, definitely, I am talking about changing my life. That is a frightening one.
In the last time I am living changes. Not in my particular life, but around me, in my environment. Changes in other’s life. Maybe it is a sign. Maybe it is my time to change, to make my own changes, those that affect directly my life.
Changes usually frighten. I think this is the reason that makes us to have monotonous lives. I do not think I have a boring life. Of course I do change things, but they are superficial and little alterations. I need more. I need that big change that can make me feel excited, nervous, that makes me look forward to seeing the results. I need to give that step that differentiates your old life from a new one, the life you want to have, in which you are who make decisions. The life in which you decide when to change again.
So, definitely, I am talking about changing my life. That is a frightening one.
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Hi!
Sometimes I like changes and sometimes I don't... you know, I like them when they're planned changes when you can control it, but when live makes a change for you, sometimes it's not so good...
You cannot imagine how much your words make me think and feel...
I'm ready again, once more with doubts, still, always.
I'll see you tomorrow.
I like yours words because I feel so near to them...
It's true: changes frighten, and unexpected more..but after the first step we must be brave and faced up to them and we'll get stronger.
thank you
Hello Harlequin!
Thank you for visiting my blog!
I don't know what to say...I used to write...but I'm not in the mood,right now..
:)
Hi Harlequin!
Changes & life are synonym. Sometimes you can choose some changes in you life and sometimes not. But, in my opinion we must said welcome changes in life and be confident with them it is the base for grow up and to be more mature.
Hello again
I'm thinking, your essay looks like it's asking for empathy, you know? perhaps you are feeling waekness or fear,... I don't know but all of us have been answering with empathy to you.
When my father have got an ictus, I started to fix, to arrange my parents life, because I saw the next problem, but a good friend told me:
-Let them alone. They are going to see the problem by themselves some day,and let them do it in their own way.
It was a good advice and It was very hard for me. I'd been doing a lack of empathy; when I realized, I thought I woudn't like somebody else tried to fix my life, not even my children..
It was a terrible change in my family life. It was like a earthquaker
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